Nothing worse than being really into someone and they're not into you.   I'm currently in the best relationship of my life.  Sherry is an amazing woman and I am so blessed.  But it's not always been that way.   If you're a woman and a little frustrated with your love life---I've got a great book for you to check out.  "He's Just Not That Into You". It's the name of a book by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo. And they offer these suggestions to help women raise their dating standards.

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Do NOT go out with a man who:

      Keeps you waiting by the phone.

      Isn't sure he wants a girlfriend but is willing to go out with you a couple times.

      Drinks to an extent that makes you uncomfortable.

      Won't talk about a future with you.

      And of course, never date a man who is married.

And never, under any circumstances, spend your precious time with a guy who's already rejected you, or who's not clearly a kind, and loving person. And ladies   they say you should remember these two words   "friend" and "busy." If he refers to you as his:

      Friend: In relationships, it usually means he's just not that into you.

      And don't buy it if he says he's busy. Busy means I'm the President of the United States, or an astronaut, or in a really successful band. In relationships, it generally means, again, he's just not that into you.

Bottom line: If a guy thinks you're worth it, he'll do whatever it takes to let you know. If you want to go further, check out the book "He's Just Not That Into You" by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo.   And there's also a movie of the same name inspired by this book.   It's been out for a few years and you may be able to find a used copy on line.  It really is good reading!!