Valentine's Day---oh my it's just about a week away and it can be the perfect time of year to reveal your true feelings to that person you've been crushing on. Before laying it all out on the line, however, follow these guidelines to help you determine if a guy is actually into you too. Nothing hurts more than pouring your heart out to someone who only sees you as a friend---and that can be heartbreaking.  I've been there and done that with a girl I was in love with, but she wasn't with me.  So it can happen both ways---to a woman OR to a man....See what you think and DO take these words of wisdom seriously.

Here are the signs that your he's not into you that way ...

He doesn't engage in in-depth conversations with you: If he is a man of very few words, or even short with you, it's his way of trying to let you know, "I don't want to be rude, but I am not into this."
 

He doesn't respond to all  your texts or calls: If he sometimes replies and sometimes doesn't, chances are high that he's probably not that into you.
 

He flirts with other girls in front of you: Girls love to brush this off as "he's just a flirt" or "he is so outgoing," but the truth is, if I guy is into you, he is not trying to work the room. His attention would be on you!
 

And this is the BIGGIE!!!   He avoids physical contact: If he keeps you at arms length and isn't receptive to a hug and kiss hello ... he doesn't want a physical relationship with you. (Gurl)