Some people are so hard to shop for when it comes to your Christmas list. Perhaps the hardest one to find a gift for is the girl you've just started dating.

You are in the earliest stages of your relationship, so two questions immediately come to mind; "Should I get her a gift" and "What do I get her?"



Any way you play it, you'll be sending her a message. You don't want to give her something that will make you seem too forward, and you don't want her to think you're not interested. So, what's the right thing to do?

First of all, you should definitely get a gift. Don't even consider not getting her one.

One good gift idea is tickets to a show, concert or sporting event. You could also get her something personal and thoughtful. For instance, remember when she mentioned how much she loves Glee? Buy her the DVD of the show.

Other good gift ideas are a massage or a day at a spa; her favorite wine; or even a "gift of the month club." The best part of a "gift of the month" is that if things don't work out with her, you can cancel her subscription.